A Word About Words and Giving Them To Others

 

�� Words. I love words. I’m surrounded by them whether as a teacher, reader or author. I’m a certified logophile and proud to bear the title. But the words that disappoint me are not on the written page.

I am continually amazing at how many people give their word and feel no obligation to carry out the agreement. Often a victim of viewing others through the lens of my own heart, I’m startled��when others��fail to take��pride in their word.

Many things in life are taken too lightly. Friendship, loyalty, marriage, divorce. In a disposable society, I feel as those so many values have been lessened to a trivial level, one of the saddest casualties: integrity.

~������Giving your word is a social bond of trust������~

When I give my word, it means something. Much different from the imaginary scenes I create in my novels; my word, as a friend, business associate or teacher, means something. It’s a measure of my worth, an indicator of my dedication and a peek into my soul. I don’t take decisions lightly. I’m thoughtful about my commitments and I never take someone else’s request lightly. What I need to learn is that it’s difficult to find people with the same level of consideration.

~���� One thing you can give and still keep is your word���� ~

In the meantime, I’ll continue to be loyal to my friends, supportive, anxious to help and enthusiastic. If I give you my word, you can be sure I’ll do everything in my power to fulfill my commitment. It’s not a bad way to live. Enjoy the day!