Suicidal: Warning Signs – Series II

Suicide appears to be on the rise these days, so it would behoove us to be on alert for possible warning signs.

 

Remember to remain close to your child as you guide them through life’s journey. There will be times of insecurity as they attempt to “find” themselves and their “plight” in life.

 

Ask your child about his/her day at school, church, social gatherings

 

Who are their friends? What sort of relationship do they have with friends? Do they have similar interests with friends? Are their friends truly their friends?

 

Build your child’s self-worth, Use Self-fulfilling Prophecy techniques and Affirmation Skills early and often.

 

Peer Pressure is a “monster” during Teen and Adolescent years!

 

List of Subtle warning signs:

Failing grades, “class clown” missing class, skipping school

Sadness more often than not

Sense of hopelessness

Activity level appears sluggish

Change in sleeping habits

Disappearing from family gatherings back to bedroom, or sudden withdrawals

Moodiness – outbursts, temper tantrums, edginess

Possible use of drugs, alcohol

Note: Even at the subtle level, do not take lightly – Talk to your child

 

List of Serious warning signs:

Any previous suicidal attempts

Any drugs in room, restroom left behind by child

Is child asking for drugs to be used for pain such as headache?

Any weapons, rope, other tools seen around home or bedroom

Observance of child giving away sentimental items

Was child making goals at one time, but now does not?

Any joking around about taking his/her own life (this may be to test you)

Any use of suicidal words in journals, tweets, Facebook, other social networks?

Note: Take immediate action

 

 

Illustration Compliments of: Kelly A. Vasquez, 7th Grade Performing Arts Student

Art Piece Titled: Insecure Spirits is propped on an easel

Description: The child is peering up at the evil spirits yelling out at him/her with a tear droplet falling.

Date: December 24, 2014