commovente:i’d really appreciate it if strangers don’t come at me with their blues or their very...

commovente:

i’d really appreciate it if strangers don’t come at me with their blues or their very very difficult questions that i have no right or ability to answer - re: death, childhood trauma?, heartbreak?, abuse, dealing with something that happened to your friend, how to love? how to be alone? what? - do you understand that constantly bombarding me with really heavy shit in very large quantities is truly a cruel burden to put on another person who doesn’t know anything about you. i believe in you all and your abilities to take care of yourselves and the people around you. support one another. support one another as truly as you can. be loyal to your friends. stick up for each other. be brave about it. if i want to talk about something, i will. but i don’t appreciate being treated like a vessel to be filled with loneliness that isn’t even mine. alright, goodnight. love you all, but i need some boundaries. we’re not dating.