If I was Attracted to Him I Should be Pouncing On Him at Every Turn

Dr. Betty,

In past relationships with long term boyfriends I've fallen into the bad habit of losing my libido due to all the normal factors: stress at work, unsatisfying sex, etc. I would say no more often than yes when an ex would try to initiate sex. I realize that's a problem but wasn't invested enough in those relationships to fix it.

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