When Not to Talk

Say only what will help to build others up and meet their needs. Then what you say will help those who listen. Ephesians 4:29

The monks at a remote monastery deep in the woods followed a rigid vow of silence. Their vow could only be broken once a year—on Christmas—by one monk. That monk could speak only one sentence.

One Christmas, Brother Thomas had his turn to speak and said, “I love the delightful mashed potatoes we have every year with the Christmas roast!” Then he sat down.

Silence ensued f...