He's like a cold-hard-ice stone Azra. How can I soften him?

When I was young I spent a lot of time daydreaming about falling in love with someone cold and watching them soften because of my love. Now I want someone to come to me already molten and warm. Already there for me, already brimming. If I were you, I’d just leave him as he is. I don’t have the time or the patience.