We try so hard to fit in. We keep track of what is trending, listen to the top 100 hits, buy the latest fashion trends and keep up the appearance of our homes with what is hot on pinterest.
While none of these things are bad in and of themselves, we need to realize we are not the same as everyone else, nor should we be. Our culture tends to think we all should think, act, and look alike. Uniqueness, and self-image is praised, and yet at the same time those who stand out are usually shunned.
The answer to all this confusion? Be you. Stop giving in, stop changing, stop trying to please.
What makes you happy? What makes you feel alive? These are the things you should be chasing after. Not what other people find exciting, popular or in vogue.
Don’t ever be embarrassed for staying true to yourself. In the end you will look back on your life and either see that you lived your own unique life, or strove to please people and still didn’t end up happy.
Be you. It’s amazing.
Published on November 28, 2014 03:45