All for One…
Alexandre Dumas’ tale of 17th Century French Musketeers was a boyhood favourite of mine. It had all the ingredients of an enduring legend: romance, adventure, goodies and baddies, dark castles, and four dashing heroes striding about in big leather boots, waving their swords in the air. When faced with adversity, the four fellows would touch swords and with a cry of “One for all and all for one!”, they would overcome any challenge. Those words made me tingle. They still do, but perhaps for different reasons.
I have always craved adventure and whilst it is okay for a man to ski, dive, trek mountains, explore jungles and crave adrenaline like a drug, it is less acceptable to seek the same adventure in a carnal sense. Why is that?
Are attitudes changing, acceptability broadening? Perhaps electronic reading devices mean that as people can read stories of a more elicit nature, they are looking for more adventure in their lives. Not long ago, stories of group sex seemed to be reserved for seedy sex shops and magazines but now the plethora of stories touted by Amazon would suggest that this is changing.
I enjoy these stories but they are often not believable or engaging. Writers seem to struggle to explain how the cuckolded husband is able to reconcile his simultaneous jealously and arousal at seeing his wife with other men. This leads to implausible plots with contrived situations. There also seems to be a trend for the man in the situation to be humiliated by the experience and I don’t understand this. I have tried ménage sex and did not feel any of the humiliation that is prevalent in stories of this sort. Indeed, I felt exultant that my girlfriend was so strong that she could indulge in such adventure, yet remain self assured.
Watching your wife or girlfriend with other men should be exhilarating, empowering, because it would be as if she is being worshipped by followers whose only purpose is to satisfy her: a very different way of saying “all for one”. And when they’d gone, she'd come back to you, as if she was saying, “I have used them and now I only want you”.
http://www.amazon.co.uk/The-Trouble-W...
I have always craved adventure and whilst it is okay for a man to ski, dive, trek mountains, explore jungles and crave adrenaline like a drug, it is less acceptable to seek the same adventure in a carnal sense. Why is that?
Are attitudes changing, acceptability broadening? Perhaps electronic reading devices mean that as people can read stories of a more elicit nature, they are looking for more adventure in their lives. Not long ago, stories of group sex seemed to be reserved for seedy sex shops and magazines but now the plethora of stories touted by Amazon would suggest that this is changing.
I enjoy these stories but they are often not believable or engaging. Writers seem to struggle to explain how the cuckolded husband is able to reconcile his simultaneous jealously and arousal at seeing his wife with other men. This leads to implausible plots with contrived situations. There also seems to be a trend for the man in the situation to be humiliated by the experience and I don’t understand this. I have tried ménage sex and did not feel any of the humiliation that is prevalent in stories of this sort. Indeed, I felt exultant that my girlfriend was so strong that she could indulge in such adventure, yet remain self assured.
Watching your wife or girlfriend with other men should be exhilarating, empowering, because it would be as if she is being worshipped by followers whose only purpose is to satisfy her: a very different way of saying “all for one”. And when they’d gone, she'd come back to you, as if she was saying, “I have used them and now I only want you”.
http://www.amazon.co.uk/The-Trouble-W...
Published on November 07, 2014 08:00
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