i don’t like the concept of loving someone in spite of their flaws, like it’a chore but...

i don’t like the concept of loving someone in spite of their flaws, like it’a chore but you still do it because  you like the good things about them and you’d rather the bad things not be there. i think flaws make people interesting, they make relationships interesting, like, i want to piss you off, i want to be be safe in the knowledge that you’ll still love me if i make you mad, i want to be able to have arguments and get past them because that’s the sign of a healthy and good relationship, getting through it all.