Not speaking

How childish is that? It’s what smalls do when they are out of intelligent answers – ‘I hate you, I’m not speaking to you”. I dislike doing it and try not to, except with fruit loops who are not open to negotiation.

I try to remember that everyone is fighting their own battles, about which I know nothing. I am too. Most of you know a lot about mine because I am a blabbermouth.

So when someone I hardly knew had a right ole pop at me I was shocked and hurt. I didn’t stop and ask what he might be going through to ellicit that attack but I blocked him. Maybe a failure on my part.

So I’d like to take this opportunity to apologise to Deb Browne who was a close friend and accused me of exaggerating all my health problems….I wish. I took it at face value and blocked her back.

I didn’t ask to have deformed feet, nor for them to take six months to heal instead of six weeks. I didn’t ask for a car to run into the side of me and give me another stroke. I swear I didn’t pray for the last car crash on my motorbike – spectacular as it was! These things just happen.

So – I’m sorry to Deb, I’m sorry to anyone else I have irritate for whatever reason. Deb because you were a good friend, others, I hardly knew you and my life is not poorer for your absence but I’m sorry you had to react like that.

I’m open to reason. If anyone wants to discuss, explain or (Heaven forfend) swap apologies … I’m here. I didn’t join social media to ignore people. I came to make friends and mainly I have done so – to the point where I am surrounded by Get Well cards from people I have never met from all over the world.

I’m blessed – if you don’t feel blessed, come and have a little chat and we’ll see if we can sort it out xxxx