i always, always see posts like “sometimes i don’t talk to my friends for like days or...

i always, always see posts like “sometimes i don’t talk to my friends for like days or weeks, it doesn’t mean i don’t love them i’m just bad at maintaining communication” and it fills me with both awe and bafflement because i can’t go for more than three days of quiet with any close friend before i’m like “DON’T YOU LOVE ME ANYMORE?”