Mastering the Fine Art of Compliment Dodging

No matter your Mandarin speaking level – beginner, expert or somewhere in between – be prepared to be over-praised.

As you progress with your language studies, you’re going to face an inordinate number of compliments from well-meaning Chinese, including effusive appraisals which far outstrip any honest assessment of your language prowess. Responding with a soft-spoken “thank you” might earn points in the West, but in China, it suggests an oversized ego and overestimated abilities. That’s right...