Life Lessons—How to Deal with Rabbit Holes when You're Writing
by Bruce Brady @BruceDBrady
Curiouser and curiouser!
This is how Alice described her experience in Wonderland, and it's my reaction when I realize I'm writing myself down a rabbit hole.
I used to get frustrated, delete my work and start over. Now, I've learned to step back and ask my inner helper what I should do. More often than not, the answer I get shows me how the seeming rabbit hole actually fits the story by reminding me of Psalm 77:19 which tells how God led the Israelites through the Red Sea, "...a pathway no one knew was there."
Frequently, my inner guide helps me weave a better story than if I just forged ahead without paying heed. Of course, this means the occasional rewrite of portions of my story, but the end result is worth the extra effort.
In every case, the real lesson is patience.
If, like me, you prefer being in control, then patience doesn't come easy. My natural reaction to a roadblock is to push through it and do things my way. But stepping away and listening to your inner spirit will usually lead to a better result than the alternative.
The next time you catch yourself heading down a rabbit hole, push yourself away from your keyboard, pen or recorder, grab a cup of your favorite beverage, and ask your guiding spirit to give you the words or direction you should take. Instead of seeing rabbit holes as negatives, see them as points of thought that when pondered can produce improvements to your work that will better help your readers understand your message or story. Even better, see them as friends who want to help you increase your readership.
So I'm curious. How do you deal with your rabbit holes?
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Bruce Brady is an author, writer and playwright. His work has appeared in Focus on the Family’s Thriving Family, www.ChristianDevotions.us, and on stage. Currently, Bruce is working on a Young Adult Novel about a boy who must deal with the death of his dad, being bullied, and helping his mom through her grief. His first five pages took third place in the ACFW South Carolina Chapter’s “First Five Pages” contest.
When he’s not writing, Bruce spends time learning from and helping other writers. He serves as Mentor of Word Weavers International’s Online Chapter, and as a member of Cross ‘N’ Pens, The Writer’s Plot, ACFW’s National and South Carolina Chapters.
“My dream is to entertain my readers and give them hope as they travel the rocky road of life.”
Connect with Bruce on his blog, The Write Voyage, Facebook, Twitter, Google+, and Pinterest.
Curiouser and curiouser!

I used to get frustrated, delete my work and start over. Now, I've learned to step back and ask my inner helper what I should do. More often than not, the answer I get shows me how the seeming rabbit hole actually fits the story by reminding me of Psalm 77:19 which tells how God led the Israelites through the Red Sea, "...a pathway no one knew was there."
Frequently, my inner guide helps me weave a better story than if I just forged ahead without paying heed. Of course, this means the occasional rewrite of portions of my story, but the end result is worth the extra effort.
In every case, the real lesson is patience.

The next time you catch yourself heading down a rabbit hole, push yourself away from your keyboard, pen or recorder, grab a cup of your favorite beverage, and ask your guiding spirit to give you the words or direction you should take. Instead of seeing rabbit holes as negatives, see them as points of thought that when pondered can produce improvements to your work that will better help your readers understand your message or story. Even better, see them as friends who want to help you increase your readership.
So I'm curious. How do you deal with your rabbit holes?
Don't forget to join the conversation!
TWEETABLESHow to deal with rabbit holes when you're writing - via @BruceDBrady on @EdieMelson (Click to Tweet)
Curiouser and Curiouser - tips to deal with those writing rabbit holes - via @BruceDBrady on @EdieMelson (Click to Tweet)

When he’s not writing, Bruce spends time learning from and helping other writers. He serves as Mentor of Word Weavers International’s Online Chapter, and as a member of Cross ‘N’ Pens, The Writer’s Plot, ACFW’s National and South Carolina Chapters.
“My dream is to entertain my readers and give them hope as they travel the rocky road of life.”
Connect with Bruce on his blog, The Write Voyage, Facebook, Twitter, Google+, and Pinterest.
Published on August 15, 2014 01:00
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