Words Have The Power To Build or Destroy
I love this quote.
“One machine can do the work of fifty ordinary men. No machine can do the work of one extraordinary man.”
-Elbert Hubbard
It made me realize something about quotes. First, not every quote that someone posts online and labels “motivational” is, umm, motivational.
I just had to read through at least 50 quotes before stumbling on this gem.
None of the first 49 “spoke” to me. In fact, I often read quotes that don’t do much for me, that don’t arouse anything. Then there are other times when I come across a phrase that I can read 100 times and still feel the fire each and every time.
I think that quotes appeal to each of us in different ways. That said, I truly know that…
Quotes can be life-changing!
The late Gary Halbert—said to be the greatest copywriter of all time—proposed a thought experiment to his students at the beginning of his seminars: Take two envelopes and address them to your mother. Now, write two very different letters.
For letter one, tell your mom that you appreciate her for all that she has done for you and that you are writing to say thank you and I love you.
For letter two, write: You are the worst mom ever and I was cursed the day I was born under your dictatorship… (and other hateful sentences to similar effect). Now seal those letters and put a stamp on them.
What do you think is going to happen if you send each of these letters?
What would happen if you sent letter one?
What would happen if you sent letter two?
Do you see the lesson here?
Words are powerful!
The words used by leaders have helped end slavery and brought nations to war. Words sell products. Words tell people you love them. Words are hurtful. Words can change lives.
The power of words cannot be overstated. They can infect your subconscious in a way that brings out real change. They can make you a more intelligent and aware human being when used properly or they can create a prison of torment and pain if used improperly. Don’t ever neglect their importance.
Words also morph as they travel from individual to individual. It’s often people refer to something I said and as adamant as they are about the exact verbiage I used, they are almost entirely 100% flat-out wrong! Since words are so powerful, and they can cause massive damage to others, you should always tread lightly with using them. Be weary of repeating something you “heard” as fact (and be weary of believing it at all). Think clearly about what you want to say and avoid rash responses. These simple tips can save you a whole hella lotta grief in your life. The main thing I want you to think about is the power of your words. More often than not, your words can do massive damage to others while meaning almost nothing to you as the speaker. You see this often in people that live lives of quiet desperation that are the target of gossip, manipulation, bullying, and other forms of interpersonal relationships in which words are the primary ammunition. It’s sad in many cases and it goes unchecked until disaster strikes. This reminds me of another quote:
“To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.” -Bessie Anderson Stanley
Aim to bring light into other’s lives. You’ll feel better doing this than putting others down or being judgmental, sarcastic, and mean. It’s just a better way to live.
We are all brothers and sisters of this home we call Earth. Don’t let the size and breath of this fact cloud your vision as to the fact that the person next to you is your brother or sister. We are all related no matter if you believe that it was God’s plan or nature’s. Either way, we are all one big family. Keep this in mind the next time you let your words go unchecked… you might be doing more harm than you realize.
Action: Think about the words you use when you write. Be careful what you say to others. Consider writing a pleasant “Thank You” letter to your mother (or father).
Your Brother on Earth and may your words be chosen wisely and to the benefit of all mankind,
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