What Does a Personal Relationship with God Look Like?

So what does a personal relationship with God feel like? It feels personal, that’s what. It’s a relationship that you and God experience and understand. It’s not a corporate relationship.

Yes, many others also have a personal relationship, and that’s a beautiful thing, just as connecting with other believers is a beautiful experience, but I don’t expect their relationship to God to be a cookie cutter of mine. Vocabulary that describes my faith and belief is—and I think should be—different. The way I connect with my divine Father naturally varies to others.

The thoughts and questions that God stirs my heart with—and the answers I find—are never going to be the same as everyone else, because my relationship with God is personal.

Contrary to this is religion. Religion creates a corporate identity. When we buy into religion we end up speaking, sounding, even looking like everyone else within that corporate branded identity. Same thoughts. Same beliefs. Same well-defined doctrines—and if you step out of line and have questions that don’t fit that corporate identity, chances are you might be silenced, or even booted out.

Well, you know, I don’t mind if I don’t fit the corporate identity of Christianity, nor do I seek membership. I’m happy to have a relationship that is unique with my creator. I’m thankful the Spirit of God is leading my life, and showing me more each day how to let go of religious ambitions, and simply live the life of love he’s always been inspiring me to live. To walk freely in each day, with an open mind to learn new things, and a open heart to connect with others gracefully and genuinely.

To live. To love. To celebrate the gift of life with others, and to enjoy the personal relationship with God I’ve been graced to have.

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This was an excerpt from my forthcoming book, out Aug 26: An Outsider’s Guide to the Gospel.

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