I'm the anon who made the comment about it hurting "our side". I'm not gaslighting. I don't post on tumblr so can only post anon but my name is Ben Weldon. I'm a gay man whos boyfriend is someone who would be described as a Neckberd going by the way he lo

On Neckbeards? I honest to god didn’t know what the term meant until today.

I am certain I never used it, and I certainly don’t recall being called out on it.

My inbox is full of talk about the phrase, but it isn’t anything I would use.