Deviation from the norm?
Happy hump day!
I am always struck by how often people make value judgements based on what they think they know about the sexuality of someone else. You know the kind of thing; for example, if a woman likes sex, then she must be a 'slut'? They attach their own meaning to what they perceive to be promiscuous behaviour and judge someone for it...
This got me thinking about what so-called 'vanilla' folk make of kinky sex and those that choose to enjoy it?
No doubt the subject has been more transparent since the release of #FSOG, but even now people tend to focus on sexual acts rather than the levels of intimacy and trust required to experience #BDSM with a partner...
I posted this article a few weeks ago on the proposed health benefits of 'alternative' sexual appetites, but I still really love it! The revelation that 'thinking outside the box' sexually can actually be good for you makes me smile! :-) Of course this notion doesn't surprise me... It makes sense that a relationship based on trust, open communication and a deep desire to satisfy one another has positive effects on your health, doesn't it?
Take a look and let me know what you think?
Until next time, enjoy #humpday!
Felicity Brandon
Fx
http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-deviant...
I am always struck by how often people make value judgements based on what they think they know about the sexuality of someone else. You know the kind of thing; for example, if a woman likes sex, then she must be a 'slut'? They attach their own meaning to what they perceive to be promiscuous behaviour and judge someone for it...
This got me thinking about what so-called 'vanilla' folk make of kinky sex and those that choose to enjoy it?
No doubt the subject has been more transparent since the release of #FSOG, but even now people tend to focus on sexual acts rather than the levels of intimacy and trust required to experience #BDSM with a partner...
I posted this article a few weeks ago on the proposed health benefits of 'alternative' sexual appetites, but I still really love it! The revelation that 'thinking outside the box' sexually can actually be good for you makes me smile! :-) Of course this notion doesn't surprise me... It makes sense that a relationship based on trust, open communication and a deep desire to satisfy one another has positive effects on your health, doesn't it?
Take a look and let me know what you think?
Until next time, enjoy #humpday!
Felicity Brandon
Fx
http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-deviant...
Published on July 15, 2014 23:56
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erotica, kink, libido, mental-health, sex
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