Interview With Megan Cyrulewski

Guess who came to my corner today. Megan Cyrulewski, that't who. Megan is the author of a soon to be released book, Who Am I? So, let's get to know her a little better. Shall we?


    When did you know you wanted to be an author?I tried my hand at writing when I was in college (about 15 years ago.)  I wrote a book that never saw the light of day because it was horrible.  The adage, “the older you get, the wiser you are” is definitely true!
Do you remember the first thing you’ve ever written? What was it? How was it received?I remember I had to write a short story in 3rdgrade.  It was supposed to be set in the 19th century.)  I had to illustrate it too and if you don’t know me, just know that my stick figures even look horrible.  Anyway, the setting I got right, but for some reason, I added a swimming pool, a refrigerator and my goldfish to the story.  Obviously, I had my priorities straight.  Suprisingly, my teacher marked me down for my “modern conveniences.” 
How do you grow a thick skin against rejection?It’s hard, I’m not going to lie.  Here you are, having written what you consider a brilliant piece of work and agents are rejecting it left and right.  All I can say is that the agents don’t know you.  You have about 3 paragraphs in a query letter to impress them.  That’s hard for anyone so don’t take it personally. 
What was it like to receive the YES for publishing?Scary, exciting, surreal, crazy, joyous, and probably many more emotions! 
When do you write? And do you have some sort of a ritual?I honestly wish I could have more time to write.  I don’t have a set schedule because my daughter is only 3 ½ years-old.  Hopefully when she goes to school fulltime starting this September, I will be able to set aside time just to devote to writing.
What do you hope to achieve by sharing your stories?My book has two main messages:  First, neverfeel ashamed if you seek treatment for postpartum depression.  It is a serious mental health issue and the best think you can do for you and your child is seek help; and second, emotional domestic violence is just as painful as physical domestic violence. 
Favorite book?“Not Without My Daughter” by Betty Mahmoody.  I’ve read it so many times, the cover has fallen off. 
Favorite movie?“Singing in the Rain.”  I’m a sucker for old movies/musicals.
Favorite calorie loaded food/snack?Popcorn
And favorite one liner.“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”  -Eleanor Roosevelt
You can find out more about Megan here: www.megancyrulewski.com and ask her questions yourself here mcyrulewski@hotmail.com