Attack The Problem, Not The Person
“Jim, we’re in this mess because of you!”
“I told you we’d lose the client, Jane. This is all your fault. You never get it right!”
“The kids wouldn’t behave this way if you weren’t such a bad father, Bill.”
We’ve all heard words like this from bosses, parents, spouses, teachers and colleagues. I’m sure many of us have bitterly spoken them as well. It’s easy to play the blame-game when our backs are up against a wall and we feel threatened, defeated or helpless. The problem is, cutting down other...
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Maricela
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Jun 04, 2014 03:14PM
That's true! So many of us are already dealing with so many problems and stressing situations. It would make it better for all of us to attack the problem, not ourselves.
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