There Is a Bridge
I recently attended a 3.5 day "There Is a Bridge" workshop in Stewart, Florida, run by the brilliant Michael Verde of Memory Bridge. Here's what I had to say about the experience:
“Outside of a cure, the most vital need of people with Alzheimer’s disease and their loved ones is real emotional connection. How do we continue to communicate with someone with AD who doesn’t talk or remember us? How can we be with people with AD so they are not left feeling the pain of isolation, abandonment, and loneliness? How do we overcome our own feelings of self-consciousness, discomfort, and fear of AD to be fully present and connected with someone with dementia?
I’m confident that everyone in this workshop came away understanding the answers to these questions, but it wasn’t through taking notes, reading power-point slides or listening to lectures. We embodied the answers. We remembered how to feel safe while vulnerable, how to let go of judgment, to offer empathy, to see the humanity and vulnerability in every person, to remember that everyone matters, how to communicate joy, understanding, and love without words or memories—through body language, emotional connection, and the willingness to be fully present in front of another human being.
Everyone should experience this workshop." -Lisa Genova
Memory Bridge Website
Video clips from "There Is a Bridge"
“Outside of a cure, the most vital need of people with Alzheimer’s disease and their loved ones is real emotional connection. How do we continue to communicate with someone with AD who doesn’t talk or remember us? How can we be with people with AD so they are not left feeling the pain of isolation, abandonment, and loneliness? How do we overcome our own feelings of self-consciousness, discomfort, and fear of AD to be fully present and connected with someone with dementia?
I’m confident that everyone in this workshop came away understanding the answers to these questions, but it wasn’t through taking notes, reading power-point slides or listening to lectures. We embodied the answers. We remembered how to feel safe while vulnerable, how to let go of judgment, to offer empathy, to see the humanity and vulnerability in every person, to remember that everyone matters, how to communicate joy, understanding, and love without words or memories—through body language, emotional connection, and the willingness to be fully present in front of another human being.
Everyone should experience this workshop." -Lisa Genova
Memory Bridge Website
Video clips from "There Is a Bridge"
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Jun 03, 2014 05:58PM
Lisa--how beautiful. With all of the medical jargon and dealing with meds, doctor appointments, paying bills, and, and, and...it's so easy for caregivers to lose focus, trying to get it done. Thanks for the gentle reminder of what is really important. Thanks for helping me to remember to be present. That's the best thing I can do for my mom.
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Donna wrote: "Lisa--how beautiful. With all of the medical jargon and dealing with meds, doctor appointments, paying bills, and, and, and...it's so easy for caregivers to lose focus, trying to get it done. Thank..."It's such a difficult and often overwhelming journey. Thank you for taking the time to get in touch. My love to you and your mom.
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