Will You Be Joining Us for a Life-Changing Retreat This October?

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Will You Be Joining Us for a Life-Changing Retreat This October?

If you’re part of the Becoming Who You Are community, you’ll have seen me drop a few hints over the last couple of weeks about a very special project I’ve been working on behind the scenes.

Well, today’s the day I get to share the juicy details, and I’m excited!

First of all, a short story:

If you’ve been part of the community for a while, you might have heard me talk about the fact that I’m introverted (INFJ, if you’re a fellow Myers-Briggs buff). These days, I’m more than happy with the fact that I get my energy from spending time alone, and I so appreciate how my preferences and personality shape the way I see, experience, and contribute to the world.

It wasn’t always that way, however.

Growing up, being “social” was a real struggle for me. I was the quiet one, mislabeled as rude and anti-social. I was told that I’d end up with no friends unless I changed (hello, social anxiety) and constantly felt like I needed to be someone I wasn’t.

As a result, I withdrew even more. I didn’t understand why I found “normal” things like parties, big social events, and small talk (urgh) so draining, when everyone else seemed to find them effortless, and even enjoyable.

I felt like an outsider, and I was convinced there was something wrong with me.

Several years ago, my now-partner introduced me to Myers-Briggs, and the concepts of introversion and extroversion. Suddenly, it was clear that these so-called “flaws” weren’t really flaws at all.

It was just about energy.

Once I learned more about what introversion really means, how to manage my energy, and, most importantly, how to accept the parts of myself that I’d previously found hard to accept, everything changed.

Now, my story is proof that the myths and stereotypes are wrong. You can be introverted and:

Share your gifts with the world in a meaningful (and sustainable) way
Create beautiful relationships that nurture your true self
Be self-employed/run your own business without crashing and burning
Self-promote (yes, really!)
Cultivate confidence and authenticity rather than trying to be someone you’re not

I’ve gained so much from embracing my introversion, and I want the same for you.

Which brings me to the special project I’ve been talking about…

The Starlight Gathering

The Starlight Gathering is a weekend retreat for introverted women who want to discover what matters most and learn how to manage their energy while sharing their gifts with the world.

This is absolutely for you if:

You want to feel accepted for who you are.
You crave authentic connection and the chance to share your hopes, dreams, desires, and fears with other women who understand.
You want to create a lifestyle where you can manage your energy in a way that suits your personality.
You wish you could better communicate your needs and preferences to the people around you.

From 16th-19th October, you’ll be able to enjoy workshops, group discussions, home-cooked food, insights galore and have the chance to connect with 10 other introverted souls just like you.

I’ll be co-hosting the retreat with Ashley Wilhite (you might remember her from episode 52 of the Becoming Who You Are podcast), a lovely and talented life and business coach. Together, we’ll be facilitating three days of connection, love, and empowerment in the beautiful environs of Lake Travis, near Austin, Texas.

As introverts ourselves, we know how important it is to make time for replenishment and rejuvenation, so you’ll also have plenty of time to read, write, rest, and explore the beautiful surroundings of Lake Travis.

Make your October unforgettable. Find out more about the retreat and apply here.

P.S. FYI: this is the be-you-tiful retreat centre where we’re going to be staying. Ah-mazing! Can’t wait :)