5 Things Churches Can Do to Help Those Who Struggle with Same-Sex Attraction

Wise counsel from Sam Allberry, drawn from his book  Is God Anti-Gay? And Other Questions about Homosexuality, the Bible and Same-sex Attraction (The Good Book Company, 2013), 

Make it easy to talk about
Honor singleness
Remember that church is family
Deal with biblical models of masculinity and femininity, rather than cultural stereotypes
Provide good pastoral support

You can read an explanation of each point here.