I like the advice you give, so I thought I'd ask for some myself. If you have the time or patience to answer this, I would be incredibly grateful. I've gone on a few dates with a lovely girl and am seeing her again this week. The problem is that I slipped

I wish I were able to speak with you on this subject a little bit more thoroughly because you really should be trying to help yourself before helping others. The way you are speaking of self-harm seems so nonchalant and so normal, and that should not be the case. I’m sorry if I am coming off insensitive, but I am very sensitive of this subject, and that’s why I wish I were able to speak with you personally and privately. I’m not worried about this girl as much as I am worried about you, your skin, and your mental health. So love, I’m sorry but I am not going to go into detail or even properly answer this question unless I can personally speak with you. This is a very touchy subject to me, and I just cannot do any kind of justice without speaking to you behind an anonymous wall.