Tuesday SOL--Add It Back
Tuesday SLICE OF LIFE Post
I was reminded recently that when we go through difficult times we tend to put aside the things that give us pleasure, which can make stress harder to tolerate. I was assigned the task of adding back things I've taken away from myself during several months of intense caregiving.
Here's what I added back:
Reading
I've only managed to read sporadically lately, so yesterday I sat at my favorite library and read until I finished Toni Morrison's potent and concentrated novel Home.
Running
My schedule eased a bit and the weather improved a bit, so I started running again. How nice to exercise outside without wearing boots.
Swimming
I joined a community center with a pool that's just a short walk from where I'm staying. Several mornings a week now I'm swimming laps. Perfect. On the way home, my hair freezes like icicles--not since I was on a swim team in high school have I heard my frozen hair clacking.
Friends
I've been lucky to be surrounded by family. Last week I also had lunch with a friend--a simple and much needed pleasure. We laughed and cried and ate too much and then went for a brisk walk in the winter sun.
Writing
Blogging, fiction, poetry--so much writing has been set aside. But here I am writing and posting this for the Tuesday Slice of Life Challenge. It's a solid writing restart. Stories, poems...they'll come back. I can already hear their voices in the distance coming closer, closer . . . .
Be good to yourself. What can you add back to your life?
I was reminded recently that when we go through difficult times we tend to put aside the things that give us pleasure, which can make stress harder to tolerate. I was assigned the task of adding back things I've taken away from myself during several months of intense caregiving.
Here's what I added back:
Reading
I've only managed to read sporadically lately, so yesterday I sat at my favorite library and read until I finished Toni Morrison's potent and concentrated novel Home.
Running
My schedule eased a bit and the weather improved a bit, so I started running again. How nice to exercise outside without wearing boots.
Swimming
I joined a community center with a pool that's just a short walk from where I'm staying. Several mornings a week now I'm swimming laps. Perfect. On the way home, my hair freezes like icicles--not since I was on a swim team in high school have I heard my frozen hair clacking.
Friends
I've been lucky to be surrounded by family. Last week I also had lunch with a friend--a simple and much needed pleasure. We laughed and cried and ate too much and then went for a brisk walk in the winter sun.
Writing
Blogging, fiction, poetry--so much writing has been set aside. But here I am writing and posting this for the Tuesday Slice of Life Challenge. It's a solid writing restart. Stories, poems...they'll come back. I can already hear their voices in the distance coming closer, closer . . . .
Be good to yourself. What can you add back to your life?
Published on March 03, 2014 09:13
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