Winning The Wrong Way?

Allahpundit, who supports marriage equality, doesn't like the Prop 8 decision:

If the goal of gay-rights activists is to make same-sex marriagepalatable to the public, then embittering opponents by torpedoing ahard-fought democratic victory seems like … an odd way to go about it.The response to that will be that equality can't wait, just as itcouldn't wait vis-a-vis school desegregation in the 1950s. Except that(a) no one, including gay-marriage supporters, seriously believes thatthe harm...