Understanding love

She showed up on time. And started talking as soon as I said “hi.”

“That ‘annoying person’ exercise was really hard. But not for the reason you might think. I started thinking about my annoying person. And I realized that none of the things that aggravate me about that person really matter. There aren’t any reasons to hate them. So I started thinking, ‘I should probably love them.’ And I realized that I wasn’t sure what to do.”

“What do you mean?”

“I mean, maybe my problem with loving enemies is...