Inverted walkabout: A marriage adventure

The world sort of shifted for me last week, resulting in an easily-misunderstood situation that I don’t want to have to explain a zillion times in private, so I’m writing this in public. I’ll try to make this as concise as possible, although the story probably deserves a longer, deeper explanation.

Here goes:

Things in my marriage have been rocky since The Incident in 2012. We’ve been up and down, but Lino has been undeniably and increasingly unhappy, getting so bad over the last few months tha...