A few of you wondered what I meant by active listening in the context of a conversation. Maybe you want to be a good listener without being bored out of your frickin' skull. I'll tell you how.
The worst kind of listener is the topic hijacker. Let's say you enjoy snowboarding and you're listening to a neighbor describe his new gas grille. Don't do this move:
Neighbor: My wife got me a new grille for my birthday.
You: Really? I got a new snowboard. Let me tell you about it...
That's just being a ...
Published on July 22, 2010 01:00