How to Get Ahead During the Holiday Season (Or Anytime of Year)
As I write this, much of the world is in slumber. It’s the holiday season, and many are on vacation or taking the week off. Families are getting together to exchange gifts, eat food, and nap excessively.
A lot of my friends are taking a break from social media. Many bloggers are encouraging their readers to unplug: to rest, fast from the online world, and be present to those they love most.
Which is great, but incomplete, advice. Yes, be present. Be available. But don’t go on autopilot. This is the perfect time to get ahead. Don’t waste it.
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One way to get ahead
Have you ever seen the movie Iron Will? It’s your typical “underdog” story about a young man who enters a cross-country dogsled race to beat the odds and save his family.
Do you know what he does to succeed? It’s simple: He does what nobody else will do.
Each night, the main character, Will, shaves an extra hour off his sleep schedule, until the last night when he doesn’t sleep at all. He is helped by a handful of guides, who give him some important advice (which might as well be a mantra for our lives):
You have to be strong. You have to learn focus, stamina, and balance. Only the smart ones will finish.
You have to run longer and sleep less… You’ll make friends who aren’t your friends, enemies who want to hurt you. Be careful who you trust.
You have one chance. You must run at night when the others have stopped. Run with the moon. Embrace the darkness.
Grow hard with the cold. Put pain from your mind. And on the last day… you alone will be friendly with the dark.
It’s not a pretty picture. Will’s body doesn’t cope well with the cold or lack of sleep. He gets sick, battles the elements, and encounters his fair share of obstacles. But he perseveres. And he wins.
How does he do it? When others are sleeping, he is working.
This is how you win at life, how you break out of the constant feeling of being left behind. Work harder; show up more often; and eventually, you prevail. It’s not easy. It will require sacrifice. But it will also bring results.
What if you did this?
During a season when much of the world is going to sleep, what if you didn’t?
What if you tackled that manuscript? What if you got up early or stayed up late — not forever, but just until the project was finished? What if you started something new, read a book for fun, or began working out? It doesn’t just have to be during the holidays. It can be any time.
This is the secret to beating the status quo: Don’t do what everyone else is doing. Do what you know you need to do. And do it well.
Successful people aren’t successful because they’re like everyone else. They’re successful because they’re weird. Because they do what others are afraid to do.
So be weird. Be you.
This isn’t for everyone
Some people will read this and get the wrong idea. They’ll think I’m advocating for a workaholic lifestyle or antisocial behavior. Not at all.
What I am encouraging is you to live a life you won’t regret — one you can be proud of.
So many times, I’ve wasted energy on things that don’t matter. I’ve squandered opportunities with distractions and comforts that didn’t add up to much.
And I’ve learned that the people who live important, meaningful lives are those who understand sacrifice and commitment.
I’m compelled to try to be different, to pursue my passion and create a life I don’t have to escape from. Yes, I’ll still take days off and enjoy myself, but I’ll also use little windows of time to do stuff that matters. Which may mean working on my book, going for a run, or tackling my reading list.
Doing this doesn’t stress me out; it invigorates me. It doesn’t suck my energy; it brings me life. And if you have a passion, spending “down time” going deep with what you love will bring you life, too.
To be fair, this isn’t for everyone. If you’ve been hustling all year and need a welcome respite, by all means take it. You may need to enjoy some much-needed rest in order to start the New Year refreshed. If so, you should do that without one ounce of guilt.
But for those who have projects you could work on — not drudgery, but stuff you’ve dreamed of doing all year long and haven’t — I hope you find a way to invest in those things. They’re worth it, after all… aren’t they?
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