20 STEPS TO ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING IN THE NEW YEAR (part 1)

There seem to be invisible forces that surround me as I start a new project. There’s that ebb of excitement that propels me forward. And then there’s that struggle that counters the ebb. But when I let things flow, when I don’t try so hard, when I struggle less, I am amazed how everything falls into place.

In one of Deepak Chopra’s many books he outlines a simple game plan to accomplishing anything. I understand that the key is letting things flow. Struggling is not the normal or right way. With the new year almost here, I promise to reflect on this list each morning before work begins.

Focus on what I want to accomplish, let it sprout and grow in my mind.
Ask my soul for help and encouragement.
Let go and allow the results to take shape.
Act when I feel clear.
Don’t take any action when I’m in doubt.
Don’t spread confusion; have faith in my purpose.
Don’t act on anger, anxiety, or other negative impulses.
Expect the best.
Accept every result as the best I can do at that moment.
Don’t blame myself for setbacks and obstacles.
Don’t shrivel up and go tight inside when something goes wrong. Be open to the lesson that every setback contains.
Don’t blame others.
Know any outcome is possible.
Put the past behind me. Trust in a better future.
Don’t accept bad outcomes passively-change whatever has to be changed within myself.
Don’t force or control the situation.
Don’t go off in fantasy. Try to be as present as possible without distraction.
Feel safe and centered inside.
Check all around me for signs that I am on the right path.
Be responsible for my own destiny.

Being responsible for my own destiny returns me to the last two lines of one of my favorite poems, Invictus, by William Ernest Henley.

I am the master of my fate,

I am the captain of my soul.

The new year is almost here, and I hope to live my best life this next year.

I invite you to add to this simple game plan. What is your best advice to living your best life?