Non-Monogamy vs Adultery

by Chris Bodenner

This reader responds to Savage:

I don't and didn't mean to make moral judgments about sexual non-monogamy.  If I were making moral judgments, they would be about honesty, trust or lack thereof, abusiveness of various kinds, etc.  I ended my comments with "More power to them," which Dan Savage seems to have missed or chosen to ignore.  It wasn't meant sarcastically.

One point I was trying to make, and perhaps didn't make very well, was that sexual monogamy is something of a red...