On Not Becoming Unhinged

by Chris Bodenner

A Slog commenter accuses Dan of pushing open relationships on people. He protests:

There's a column, pretty recent one, not gonna look up, where I
encouraged a guy who was into monogamy to dump a girl who wasn't
told him he was fine. Go and find it! Gotta run.

I do advocate, however, being realistic about the odds that one or theother or both partners in a truly long long-term relationship willcheat at some point. The stats on infidelity? Shocking, consideringthat...