Gay is IN.. isn't it?

Every time I open a newspaper, turn on the TV or go online, it seems someone famous is coming out.
Yesterday it was Tom Daley.
I watch as more US States accept marriage equality, and yes, I cheer, every freakin' time. More, please. Keep 'em comin'.
I watch on Facebook as the number of groups interested in MM fiction grow. It seems more and more people are reading my genre.
BUT...
I walk into my local branch of Waterstones (bookstore) and you know what? Not one single LGBT book. No, they haven't sold out. There isn't even a shelf set aside for them.
My questions are these:
When will I be able to say that I write gay romantic fiction, or even gay erotic fiction, and not have someone look at me like I've suddenly grown two heads? Don't get me wrong - these days, if someone asks me what I write, I tell them, no hesitation.
When will I be able to walk into a UK bookstore and see my books on the shelf? In the year when 50 Shades of Grey was readily available in supermarkets, is this too much to ask?
Is it asking so much?
I just read through the categories for GR's best books of 2013 - where were the LGBT books? Did I miss them? Were they hidden away in some category somewhere?
What I find really interesting is the winner of the Romance category... This was the one with the M/M plot, right? Well, sort of...
Maybe I'm being impatient. I mean, look how far we've come!
So, until these things come to fruition, I'm going to carry on writing, because I have so many stories inside me, just dying to get out.
2014 is going to be a busy year.
Just so you know...... ;)