How do you develop deep, lasting love?

How do you know when it's real love?
You know those feelings you get when you fall in love: The zinging sensations, the floating on air, the exhilaration, the sparkling newness of it all. Not to mention the physical attraction that hits you like a Mack truck.

The media knows all about these feelings. The media hands the pursuit of love at us in the form of novels, articles, movies, songs, gimmicks, advertisements, junk mail...we are inundated with constant reminders of the love we'll experienc...