Okay to Be a Bit Frigid, Khloe
So, it looks like Khloe Kardashian is taking back her basketball player hubby, Lamar Odom. A couple months back she kicked him out of their 8,000 square foot home because he was hooked on crack. She’
d been putting up a stoic front, giving the appearance of a happy marriage, but too much just became too much.
But, apparently, she’s taking the former Laker back. As you know, I am all about love. I want couples to prevail and love to survive. Far be it from me to sabotage a relationship, but I do question some of what Khloe is doing.
Lamar has begged his wife for another chance and has promised to quit cracking up (not at her jokes, either). He’d been clean for a few days and apologized to Kardahian’s mom, Kris Jenner. He started going back to the gym and added a few pounds. So, sure, looks like he’s moving in the right direction. But, from where I’m sitting, a few days isn’t enough to let him back in. But, I get it. Khloe wants so badly to get the man back that she married. So, when she sees he might be coming around, patience for proof may be tough.
But, what about the fact that he not only did drugs and lied, but that he cheated on Khloe? Yes, I know; relationships can survive cheating. But, I think that Khloe’s talking him back just a bit too quickly. Time is what will prove if he can stay clean and out of other women’s pants. But, here’s what gets me, and that I just don’t get. Khloe’s sleeping with Lamar again. Yes, it’s her husband. Yes, he’s promised to be faithful, but come on, he just slept with other women recently. Youi can’t give him any of that that for quite some time, or at least until you have him tested.
Yes, sex can be tough to hold out for, but when your partner is sleeping with other women and doing drugs, you need to hold off, not as a punishment for him, but as a show of power as well as an opportunity for him to show what he’s made of. Come on, Khloe, don’t cave too quickly!
