When It's Best to Let Sleeping Lions Lie. . .

  There are some amends it's better not to make. Here's my advice to one reader whose understandable desire to right a wrong could have provoked an even more grievous harm. "Dear Mr. Kravitz: I am a 63 y.o. male. When I was 19, I wronged my first girlfriend. I have been feeling guilty about it since then. I researched quite a bit and finally found her in her second marriage, with subsequent name changes. I have her address, and a number of years ago I sent a certified letter to her, it was s...