Do not ask. Please.

For the most part, when writers get asked questions, they are related to the books, the characters, and that sort of thing.  It's not very often that I get asked questions that leave me feeling uncomfortable or offended, but sometimes it does happen.

As some of these have happening fairly recently, either in email, on twitter, blogs, or in person via signings.  There are some questions that writers get asked that just shouldn't be asked.  Not unless you're a very close, personal friend...