How, and how not, to build character
The Apostle Paul wrote, We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope [Romans 5:3-4].
I live a life of affluence in an affluent society. I have all I need or want and give my kids all they want. I have so many worldly toys to play with, I am like a little child in a toy store. I cannot make adult choices and commitments in life because I am impossibly distracted by so many opportunities. It's more fun to go with the flow and not have to commit. I eat free lunches rather than earn my keep.
Trouble is, there is no such critter as "free lunch". Someone paid for the lunch, even if I ate for free. So my free lunch meant I loafed on the back of someone else's labor. This is the way of today's society in the good ol' USA.
How can I expect my kids to develop character, unless they experience the sufferings which can lead to real character. Am I really doing my kids right when I make their life so easy? Fact is, I am harming them by stunting their growth spiritually, emotionally, and in all ways.
As a Christian I need to do much better than the world. I need to be salt and light to the world by means of the Gospel, not mimic the world in affluent living. We cannot serve two masters. Either we serve the Lord or we serve affluence. Country club church is not the Gospel.
I live a life of affluence in an affluent society. I have all I need or want and give my kids all they want. I have so many worldly toys to play with, I am like a little child in a toy store. I cannot make adult choices and commitments in life because I am impossibly distracted by so many opportunities. It's more fun to go with the flow and not have to commit. I eat free lunches rather than earn my keep.
Trouble is, there is no such critter as "free lunch". Someone paid for the lunch, even if I ate for free. So my free lunch meant I loafed on the back of someone else's labor. This is the way of today's society in the good ol' USA.
How can I expect my kids to develop character, unless they experience the sufferings which can lead to real character. Am I really doing my kids right when I make their life so easy? Fact is, I am harming them by stunting their growth spiritually, emotionally, and in all ways.
As a Christian I need to do much better than the world. I need to be salt and light to the world by means of the Gospel, not mimic the world in affluent living. We cannot serve two masters. Either we serve the Lord or we serve affluence. Country club church is not the Gospel.
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