Embracing the Dominatrix in You

Don’t you just love the word “dominatrix” ? It’s one of those words that sounds like what it is, isn’t it? Powerful. Kinky. Naughty. Alluring. Between Elizabeth Shore’s  post on sex toys, and Madeline Iva’s on BDSM, and the fact that my main female character in my next book is an ex-dominatrix, I thought it might be fun to explore some of the real “toys” these kick-ass women might use during play. What do you think?

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“Say, please, Mistress!”

In CRAVINGS, Sasha takes Sanj into a sex-toy store. When it comes to the sexy leather outfits, Sanj simply says “I want one of each for Sasha.” Wouldn’t that be nice, ladies? But Sanj gets an education while he shops there. Yes, there are paddles, whips,  and flogs, as you would expect.

But there are also collars:

And there  are forced orgasm belts, strap-on dildos, nipple clamps, anal beads, and a  number of different kinds of restraints.

If these don’t look like fun to you, maybe embracing your inner-dominatrix isn’t for you. Or maybe you need to take it slowly. But even though I’ve researched a bit, I’m just a casual—albeit intrigued— bystander. I’m not an expert in any way.

Just in case you’re interested, here’s a few blogs that you might fancy:

How to act like a dominatrix.

Being hired as a dominatrix.

One man’s experience with a Dominatrix.

Enjoy!