Recommended Reading #163: Parenting, Pt. VI
“Why Introverts Fail At Attachment Parenting” by Lynn Beisner (Non-Sex-Related, Psychology, Sociology) 7/23/12
This line sums up not only the value of this article for me but also an essential truth in being: “I would argue, however, that the first step to being a good parent is being a self-aware person.” I see self-awareness as the essential basis for being effective at anything. Beyond that, while I am not a parent, I appreciate what I interpret as the gist of this article and imagine numerous people might find it helpful. If I were a parent, I feel little doubt I would feel resonance with what is offered here.
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“GA Allows Transgender Girl To Use — Oh My! — The Girls’ Room” by Cristan (Trans*, Interview, Youth) 8/22/13
I found this an extraordinary and illuminating interview, and I share it for both reasons—I don’t pretend to be any kind of expert on trans* issues, and I like seeing things that seem helpful, education-wise, for both me and others. In addition, of course, I found it heartening to read of a family so supportive of its members.
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“10 Things I Plan to Tell My Daughter About Sex That Aren’t That Purity Movement Crap” by Jef With One F (Sex and Culture, Youth, Sexuality Education) 7/23/13
I especially, profoundly love number six. And number one. I experience this whole piece as refreshing and heartening and so appreciate its being written.
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I had a very toxic boss who was not very self-aware when it came to those she managed. I know that she was also a helicopter parent because she would call her college-age son to wake him up so he would not miss scheduled exams! I wonder if there's a correlation...
I really feel the importance of self-awareness cannot be overestimated. And indeed, it also seems to me the lack thereof can manifest in multiple ways depending on one's patterning, experience, and tendencies. It's nice to see you, Tim, and thank you for commenting! :)
