The Power of Writing Down Social Goals

The last few times I've interacted with groups on an adventure, I've tried something new. Normally, when I meet new people, I act out my insecurities. What I mean is, I'll drop names or try to control the situation or say things I think will return respect. This never works. While I enjoy the time, I usually feel like I talked too much and didn't really let people get to know me. I feel more like I put on a show than let my guard down to have a good time.

This past week, nine guys from Texas c...