My Daughter is Already a Follower!

Rosalind Wiseman answers a question from Anita, a parent concerned that her pre-teen daughter is already becoming a follower.  Because her daughter seems so eager to please her peers, Anita is worried that her daughter will join in on bullying or worse, that she herself will eventually become a target.  How can Anita teach her daughter that it's better to be a leader and not a peer-pleaser?