How do you manage your family calendar?

I am a mom with a calendar crisis. I  seem to be managing too many calendars, while feeling like I don't have control over all the meetings, birthday parties, events and open houses which fill our days.



As a Macintosh user with an iPhone, I use iCal to manage my appointments, as well as anything involving the children. At home I have a beautiful paper calendar hanging in the kitchen, on which I write all the family events, as well as any work items which may impact that schedule. And my husba...