Asker or Guesser?

First, you should read this short article in the Guardian. The writer claims it will change your life but really it's just an interesting tidbit.

For them who won't click, a quick summary: Some people ask for things with the expectation that they may hear "No," which they're perfectly fine with ("Askers") . Some people try to figure out if they will get a "Yes" answer before they ask, so they won't make the other person turn them down ("Guessers").

In our culture, there's a strong push to...