Four Reasons I Hate You !

 You want to know how I can possibly hate you. You say I don’t even know you? You are correct, I don’t know you and, really, I don’t hate you either….. just wanted to get your attention.

 But if I did hate you, here is why:

 1 – I hate you because; I think you’re responsible for all my problems!

 2 – I hate you because; I think you want something that is mine!

 3 – I hate you because; I think you think you’re better than me!

 4 – I hate you because; I think you hate me!

The key words above are “I think”. They say that our perception is our reality, and that is true, but the problem is that perception is not always truth. So often in business and in life, we perceive one of the above, many times, based on nothing factual. This can lead to thoughts of worry, anger and even hate.

So much of the social hatred in today’s world is based on perceptions that one group of people has about another group and so much of it is unfounded, on both sides. 

Business can be the same way. Sales agents from one company have perceptions about sales agents from another company and this can lead to uneducated and unfair sales tactics.

Unfortunatly I don’t have the answer to this problem neither in the social or business realm. But, what I do believe is this; hate is a terrible emotion! It hardens and poisons the mind, the heart, and the soul. Carrying hate can cause emotional and physical stress to our bodies.

We truly can control what we think and what we believe. And when we understand this, our perceptions can be totally different, thus changing our emotional feeling and hatred can be….. No more.

Good Selling

Bob