On being exceptional

The following quote popped up in my Goodreads feed as having been "liked" by one of my friends:

“The thing that makes you exceptional, if you are at all, is inevitably that which must also make you lonely.” — Lorraine Hansberry

Initially I was going to agree, but upon reflection I cannot.

I have been a writer for more than four-fifths of my life, and I have always preferred solitude. Those times, when I could immerse myself in worlds and situations of my own creation, began as a blessed refuge from the harsh realities of my childhood. Now, decades later, periods of solitude allow me to pour forth my best written work. Many have dubbed my novels exceptional, and for those endorsements I am truly grateful.

Do I feel "lonely?" Most certainly not. I am not devoid of the need for human interaction, nor do I shun it--just ask my family!

But I never feel lonely in solitude, because that is when my characters emerge to their fullest extent to share their joys and triumphs, their fears and follies with me.

In solitude I can give their stories the scope and quality they deserve.