5 Reasons for believing in yourself

 

[image error]The previous article dealt with belief and how important it is to believe in one self. Believing its possible must always be followed with belief in oneself. If you do not believe in yourself, how can you expect to win or how can you expect others to believe in you. So take heed, no matter who trusts you are not, believe in yourself.

1)     BELIEVING IN YOURSELF IS AN ATTITUDE

Attitude is the most important word in the English language. Milton said it well when he said, “Hell of heaven, and heaven of hell” It is our attitude that makes hell heaven, and heaven hell. If a person has a good attitude then he can change any situation into a positive one. But if the person has a negative attitude he will certainly make mountains out of mole hole. Even believing in oneself is an attitude. And better it is a positive attitude.

2)     THE CHOICE OF WHAT TO BELIEVE IS UP TO YOU

There is always a choice, either a person can choose to go for it, or wait for a miracle to happen. There are many people in history who were told that they cannot achieve anything in life, but they had belief in themselves that they could achieve anything in life and then did it. Edison and Newton were both chucked out of school as they were not very “intelligent” but they decided not to carry on with the attitude of a failure, but to carry out an attitude of success.

3)     YOU HAVE TO GIVE UP “I CAN’T”

Many times we say “I can’t” This actually dis-empowers us. Whenever we say we can’t we are putting a limitation to our abilities. I can’t have money, I can’t study well, I can’t do that and this… blah blah blah… But instead of saying I can’t you can always say I will give it a try. Who knows you might achieve it. So take your chances.

4)     DON’T WASTE YOUR LIFE BELIEVING YOU CAN’T

Some people will live a life of mediocrity. They will go school, then get a job, afterwards get married…and after some years retire then die. This is a normal cycle of life. But then one day you tried cycling, and suddenly you find out that you love cycling, and you regret you haven’t done that for many years. Sometimes we decide not to go after our dreams. But afterwards we will regret it. We believe that we can’t , and then when life is run out, we understand that we  have wasted our life.

5)     WHAT OTHERS THINK ABOUT YOU IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS

Here is the truth, nobody cares about you, or thinks about you. You are simply wasting time. There is a principle called, 18/40/60, i.e at 18 we care about what other people will think. And then at 40 you don’t give a darn about others, and at 60 you realize that nobody thinks about you. So it is none of your business to think about other people. Don’t waste you life thinking about others. Think of your dream and go on…. Believe in yourself.

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