How Mastectomy Affects Marriage

Angelina Jolie announced this week that she had opted for a double mastectomy in February because she has a genetic variant that puts her at high risk for getting breast and ovarian cancer. Her mother passed away at age 56 after a battle with ovarian cancer, so the Hollywood heavy-hitter made a choice to remove her healthy breasts, reducing her chance of breast cancer from 87% to just 5%. Her story alone is riddled with sadness, empowerment, risk, odds, loss and life. But, what I wanted to look at in thhis post was how it affects her superstart husband, Brad Pitt and their relationship.

Pitt was supportive of his wife’s decision and thankful for the medical team who  oversaw the three month long process. But, how does that take a toll on how he sees his wife. Angelina Jolie is known in Hollywood for her pouty lips as well as her incredible body. How does a man deal with the loss of that part of his wife? I know that it’s not a vital organ, nor does it change who she is on the inside, but breasts represent feminity and womanhood. Pitt is supportive as he should be, but does the removal of a woman’s breasts take a toll on the relationship?

I think that if a couple has a strong relationship before they find themselves in a situation where a mastectomy is necessary, the entire ordeal can bring the couple closer. There will be new paths to forge and obstacles to overcome, but having had a history with a strong foundation, this kind of journey can reinforce that foundation. But if a couple is struck with such a tragedy and their relationship has already been struggling, this kind of experience can really tip the boat. There are emotional issues, physical issues as well as sexual issues to tackle. Without a strong base from which to start, this could be disaster for a relationship.

Hopefully, you will not have to encounter a situation such as Jolie’s and Pitt’s, but be prepared. Work now on a strong relationship. Build your love, trust, passion and commitment with one another. It will help you through life’s unexpected curveballs, and if life chooses not to throw any strange pitches, you’ll have worked on creating a wonderful relationship others envy.[image error]