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                        PYAR KA PUNCHNAMA[image error]- 2 (DATING THE CUTIE)She says she’s in love with you on the second date? Careful, she could be desperate to pin you, (or anyone) down



She blames you for your inability to commit; but maybe it’s not you, it’s her. It could be because she’s a desperate woman. Such women are intense, needy and unable to keep a man because of their frantic desire for a serious commitment.

How do you know if you are dating one? Check out the signs.

• She’s always hooked

Read her relationship history. Is she a serial monogamist? Does she jump from one relationship to another? It could be because she cannot stand to be alone. Look closer — is one of her exes a junkie rockstar, while another an investment banker, and still another a naturalist?

The warning bells should clang if she doesn’t seem to have a particular type. It means she’ll hook up with anyone rather than stay alone.

• She’s got it planned 

She knows what she’s doing on the last Sunday of September, next year. She’s named her future children and even picked their careers. In fact, she’s got a whole life planned, and is just looking for a sperm donor in the form of a husband. As soon as you begin dating, she keeps asking you if you love her and acts like you’ve been together for years. Then she’s making your sister her best friend and ingratiating herself to your family.

A desperate woman is eager to start her well-planned life immediately and will try to pressurize you into a premature commitment.

• Her pets wear clothes

So she has a pet; but watch how she interacts with them. Does she molly-coddle or pamper them execesively. Does she treat them like people? A desperate woman channels her affection and need to control through animals. And also surrounds herself with them to feel loved.

• She’s a doormat

Does she agree with you all the time? Are you suprisingly pleased by how similar you both are? A woman anxious to get hitched will fake compatibility in her rush to the altar. But would you want to date a mirror of your tastes and opinion?


  How to get out  

So all the signs point in the direction of the woman you’re with. And you thought all that clingy, needy behaviour was affection. Take this road to freedom.

Take the blame

Disarm her by admitting you can’t commit. Sure that will make you a heartless manipulator, but it will also make you a free man. The more she cries or emotionally blackmails you into staying in the realtionship, the more you shouldn’t be convinced that she’s desperate.

Damage control

After the break-up, explain to your friends and family why you’ve called it off. If she’s really desperate, she might use your people to patch things back up with you or elbow her way into your social circle. Make sure your friends know the truth so that you can keep her away.

Cut off ties

It’s heartless, but these kind of women have neediness down to a clingy art. She’ll repeatedly try and manipulate you back into the relationship. Avoid her calls, change phone numbers if you have to and block her on your Facebook.