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Thanks for writing, if you have.  Something I cannot figure out is how to make my replies correspond with the comment.  All comments go to spam until I approve them— lots of Viagra offers, absurd porn, and mortgage junk come my way and must be deleted.  Once approved, the comment is posted. When I reply to one, my answer goes to spam too.  When I approve my own answer, it no longer appears with the intended comment. It does go to the right post–but appears at random.  This is a mystery...